Rich - Welcome to the world of Home Brew dude!!
Ok a few questions/suggestions:
1. have a beer!
2. What type of beer is the first one gonna be? Does it only extract? Any grains or Hops? What about the yeast - Liquid or dry?
3. have a beer!
4. Do you have a 4 gallon stainless pot? That's what you'll need to "cook" that batch on the stove.
5. have a beer!
6. Do you have 2 plastic spoons? 1 should be about 2-3ft long and big enought to stir w/in the 6 gallon primary fermentation bucket, the other should be about 1 - 1 1/2 feet long and for stiring the beer in the 4 gallon pot. Don't you Wooden spoons, they retain/keep germs.
7. have a beer!
8. Read ALL the directions thru a few times, make sure you bleach sanitize everything ahead of time.
9. Soak the malt can (assuming it's not powder or vacume sealed bags) in hot sink water to loosen it up BEFORE opening, makes it easier to pour.
10. When you add the liquid malt to the boiling water WATCH very carefuly as it comes to a boil. When it starts to grow, pull it off the stove, turn the burner down to medium, let it sit for 5 minutes then put it back on. After the initial growth (it bubbles/froths up and OVER if you are not careful) it should stabilise on a slow boil.
Let me know how it goes and any other q's!